When embarking on a memoir, it can be difficult to know where and how to begin. Stories of the self are by their very nature intimate and vulnerable acts, whether you’re writing about the joys of life or you’re tackling something more difficult about your past.
There is no one way to tell your personal story and, with this in mind, here are five brilliant memoirs which demonstrate the huge variety in theme, voice, structure, and pace in this deeply personal genre.
Here are five memoirs everyone should read.
Skating to Antarctica – Jenny Diski (Little, Brown)
This book blends memoir and travel writing, documenting Diski’s journey to Antarctica to escape the trauma of her past. It is a book of two voices – one informative and illustrative, describing in depth the details of her expedition; one confessional and introspective, as she confronts her relationship with her estranged parents and their impact on her present life. Her past is told in the third person, holding the abuse she suffered at the hands of her family at arm’s length.
Cold Fish Soup – Adam Farrer (Saraband)
This is a memoir told in a series of essays, reflecting on small town life, relationships between family and friends, and male mental health. Farrer’s book is deeply connected to place and the ways in which a location can shape and influence a life.
Constellations – Sinéad Gleeson (Picador)
Gleeson’s memoir captures an entire life told through the story of a body. The book manages to be personal and universal, moving from birth to love, from motherhood to illness, all the way through to death and loss. Gleeson’s book demonstrates a way through some of the more difficult moments in life.
Shame on Me – Tessa McWatt (Scribe UK)
This is a memoir not only about the author herself but also about her family history. Shame on Me captures a snapshot of the racism that McWatt experienced both in Canada, where she was born and raised, and the UK, where she lives and works. McWatt directs her anger at the system of ‘plantation’, a structure of inequality which continues to pervade our society.
Brown Baby – Nikesh Shukla (Bluebird)
Brown Baby is a memoir addressed to Shukla’s infant daughter and seeks to prepare her for the world in which she is growing up. It mixes humour and anger, stories of his past with his hopes for his daughter’s future.
Arrangements in Blue
We can’t talk about our favourite memoirs without mentioning poet and writer Amy Key. Amy’s memoir, Arrangements in Blue: Notes on Love and Making a Life, is a raw exploration of intimacy and solitude as a partnerless woman.
Amy is the tutor of our Writing Your Memoir: Next Steps online tutored course, starting Monday 22 September 2025. Find out more about the course →
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